Bedding Phase|Step 5 of 23

Upgrade Your Pillows

Pillows should be replaced every 1-2 years. The right pillow for your sleep position makes a significant difference in sleep quality.

Time Required

30 minutes shopping

Cost

$30-150 per pillow

Difficulty

Very Easy

Signs Your Pillows Need Replacing

  • The fold test: Fold pillow in half. If it doesn't spring back, it's dead
  • Visible stains: Yellow discoloration from sweat and oils
  • Lumpy or flat: Lost its original shape and support
  • You wake with neck pain: Pillow isn't supporting properly
  • Allergies are worse: Dust mites accumulate over time
  • Over 2 years old: Even if it looks okay, materials have degraded

Pillow Firmness by Sleep Position

Side Sleepers: Firm to Medium-Firm

Need the most loft to fill the gap between shoulder and head. Look for 5-7 inch loft. Memory foam or latex work well.

Back Sleepers: Medium

Need moderate support to maintain neck curve. 4-5 inch loft. Down alternative or memory foam are good choices.

Stomach Sleepers: Soft to Flat

Need minimal loft to prevent neck strain. 3 inches or less. Down or soft down alternative. Some stomach sleepers skip pillows entirely.

Combination Sleepers: Adjustable

Look for pillows with adjustable fill you can add or remove. Shredded memory foam pillows are popular for this.

Pillow Fill Types

TypeProsCons
DownSoft, moldable, long-lastingExpensive, may trigger allergies
Down AlternativeBudget-friendly, hypoallergenicFlattens faster, less durable
Memory FoamGreat support, holds shapeCan sleep hot, off-gassing
LatexResponsive, cooling, durableHeavy, more expensive
BuckwheatVery adjustable, coolingHeavy, makes noise

Pro Tips

  • Try before buying: Many stores let you test pillows. Lie in your sleep position for several minutes.
  • Use pillow protectors: Zippered protectors extend pillow life and are easier to wash than pillows.
  • Check return policies: Many pillow brands offer 30-100 night trials.
  • Consider temperature: Hot sleepers should avoid solid memory foam—choose shredded or gel-infused instead.